My oldest, the big brother, is suddenly looking so grown up.
Over the last year he has gone from goofy smiles to serious face, when I can get a photo of him at all. He’ll still pull faces, but in an attempt to get me to give up taking the photo. I try to catch him unawares, thoughtful. Focus on those big blue eyes. Why do boys always get the best eyelashes?
As I flicked through recent images, choosing the portraits for this post (I plan a similar selection for the 5yo and wee girl), I was struck by how his face has changed, no longer a little boy; glimpses of the teenager to come.
When I look at these photos I feel I am looking at his future self, not the child I still see in my minds eye, but the boy who is growing up so fast.
This boy who is nearly eight. This boy who can now eat more than me. This boy who now says ‘Mu-um’ in that exasperated way, a sure sign of the tween to come.
The first, the oldest, the big brother.





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Oh Sara it really catches you unaware moments like this – you start to wonder where the time’s gone! Lovely – big black and white fan here!
Thanks Annie, I’d really like to press pause every so often x
Such lovely photos! I love catching the natural expressions rather than the funny faces that people pull when they notice the camera!
Thank you x
Yes you can see the maturity in his face, he will be a lady killer, those eyes! Mich x
Thanks Mich, when he’s not pulling faces he’s rather cute, although I am biased :)
It’s such a wonderful new stage though:) My eldest will be ten in September and he is already nearly as tall as I am. He has begun to get that lovley wit that teenage boys seem to have – almost cheeky but wrapped in an innocent smile that just makes you giggle.
I see glimpses of the chubby faced little toddler every now and again but much more of the man he will soon become if I’m honest. For a while it saddend me – now I’m just so excited to see him metamorphosize into whatever it is he will be.
They will always be beautiful – they will always be our babies:)
You’re absolutely right. I find each new stage very exciting, but there are moments of gosh it’s going so fast!
A special big brother looking very caring there
Thank you Fiona x
Lovely photos. He does look serious and thoughtful
Thank you x
Beautiful photos and words. I know what you mean about 8. GG is 9 and for a while now I’ve been able to see the young woman she will become. Thank you for joining in x
Thanks Helen x It seems to have been such a sudden jump from little boy to almost tween!
such beautiful pics. My son is 19 months and we have noticed he has changed from baby to little boy; It’s sad to see tha baby years go, but exciting to see the next years ahead of us.
xx
It is exciting, there’s always a bit of a pang, but each new stage is so much fun x
awww lovely post Sara, its so amazing that in a few short week so much growing up can be done #expressions x
I know, it’s happening so fast!
Simply beautiful photos! They certainly are ones to treasure! x #BetterPhotosProject
Thank you x
Beautiful photos. I sometimes see the future man that my little boy will be, and it brings tears to my eyes. He’s only three!
It’s bittersweet, isn’t it x
So true about the lashes. My sons got nice ones too. Mine is non existent =P
This post made me look at my son’s photo before and I saw what you mean about the changes. With you son his maleness is showing more now. I also remember photos of him before where he always hold your daughters hand. Such a gentleman and a good big brother =) #betterphotosproject
Oh, thank you Merlinda x
Oh my goodness, he has beautiful eyes!!
I said something very similar about my daughter growing up in my Expressions post. I just want to capture the carefree innocence forever x
Thank you x
Oh Sara these are just beautiful b & w shots of your eldest. His eyes in the centre shot are riveting. He’s going to be a heartbreaker of a teen someday
Thank you Kriss x
Love these photos, because, as you said, there’s a little bit of a future teenager in there, and also a young boy!
Exactly :) Thank you Tarana x
Such gorgeous photos, and yes, he does look grown up! I can’t yet imagine my two at the stage of avoiding the camera (Boo is a photo bomber!) but I’m sure the time will be here before I know it. Lovely post, Sara x
It happened quite suddenly, but he’s definitely not as keen as he once was x
What a lovely post for the boy and beautiful pictures as ever
Thank you very much x
What a gorgeous young man he is. So much love in his eyes, and a beautiful smile.
Thank you Joy x
Sarah your boys are all so good looking. I love the black and white captures of them it almosts helps see the men they will all become. It’s great to see the grown up looks one minute yet the little boys in them again the next
Thank you Fiona x
I am a huge fan of black and white photos. Lovely expression ones here of your son. They grow up so fast don’t they? I never know where the time goes week after week! It’s amazing. Soon you will be watching them all walk down the aisle and have kids of their own. Scare thought isn’t it? #whatthestory
It is a bit scary at times, and I want to pause, but it’s also exciting :)
I keep thinking the same about big man
You just catch the odd moment, don’t you?
Beautiful photo! My eldest will turn 7 this year, they grow up so fast. Yet, even if they don’t smell quite like a baby and eat like a grown man they will forever remain baby in our eyes.
Absolutely true x
Absolutely stunning pics. Such a handsome boy x #whatsthestory
Oh, thank you Carolynne x
Oh what wonderful photos of the big brother Sara. He sure is growing up but you can still see the little boy in there too. He looks so deep in thought and I love the images in black and white. Great eyelashes! Thank you so much for sharing with #whatsthestory
Thank you Charly, and thanks for hosting x